CPTSD Recovery, Couples Therapy, and Relationship Counseling in Uptown Dallas
Welcome to Dallas Attachment Therapy
Your relationships are hugely important to you, but are also the source of your overwhelm, anxiety, loneliness, and pain. You notice that you overreact in heated moments, over communicate to feel safe, and try to please everyone which leaves you feeling fake and self-abandoned. With your partner, there’s a recurring conflict that repeats itself without any real closure, you fight in a way that feels primal, and intimacy is just a word, not a lived experience.
If this resonates, welcome to attachment-based counseling in Dallas! Specializing in CPTSD recovery, couples trauma counseling, and partner relationship issues, we work with driven and creative adults who survived difficult childhoods and are feeling detached, anxious, or disorganized in their relationships.
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Meet the Therapist
Who I Work With
Hi, I’m Abigail, and I’m honored that you’re here! As a therapist who has been on your side of the couch and has lived experience in what I treat, I value your courage every time you walk in the door. After nearly a decade in the field, I have noticed my most effective work is with:
Couples who survived trauma together or in their childhoods, struggle with conflict and intimacy, and want to learn to express their needs and emotions securely
Adults whose first bullies were their parents or pastors and want to be free of nightmares, panic attacks, and obsessive thoughts
Individuals who struggle with anxiety or avoidance in their relationships with their partners and who want to learn healthy boundaries and emotional regulation.
Services
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Offered in-person in Uptown Dallas or virtually anywhere in Texas, this is a space for adults to explore their relational concerns from childhood or current struggles with their partner with confidentiality and unconditional curiosity and support.
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Offered from a trauma-informed approach, couples therapy at Attachment Lab focuses on helping you and your partner deconstruct the communication pattern that you’re in, what experiences from your past inform it, the attachment needs you both have underneath the recurring conflict, and the role of emotions in your dynamic. We practice tools for emotional regulation and concrete skills and homework to put the insight you learn in session into practice at home.
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Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is an approach to healing trauma that allows you to reprocess painful memories and beliefs that keep you stuck. EMDR in Uptown Dallas is offered in-person or remotely in Texas from the comfort of your own home.
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How Dallas Attachment Therapy Helps
The issues that drive you to counseling often exist in a pattern didn’t start overnight. The cycles of intrusive thoughts and images, overwhelming feelings that won’t give you a break, and relationship stress have deep roots in the memories you try to avoid and experiences that you survived but never really processed in the moment. Whatever you had to survive leaves you with a legacy to reckon with; attachment therapy tracks the themes in your story all the way back to their origin so that healing is inner transformation instead of a cover-up operation.
Attachment therapy is relational, which means your only job is to show up willing and my role is to be your teammate and collaborator. We work together to track the patterns in what you share each week, help you uncover their source, and give you a safe space to create a new lived experience both in and outside of session through experimental exercises, actionable feedback, and intuitive, body based practices. This process isn’t about overnight fixes or black and white solutions but it also isn’t the type of counseling that continually agrees with you and stops at asking “how does that make you feel?” It’s warm, challenging, deep, practical, and creative work tailored to you, your goals, and your preferred future
What Others Say
Abigail is deeply insightful and thoughtful. Her balance of genuineness, directness, and curiosity creates a safe space for her clients to explore how their past is interfering with their their present, making her an excellent trauma and couples counselor.
-Kayla B.
Abigail compassionately walks alongside you in your journey toward wholeness. She pulls from an array of evidence-based practices to help you heal from the things holding you back. If you are ready to. make a change, don't hesitate to reach out!
-Brandi M
Abigail's ability to quickly see and empathize with each person's unique strengths and experience are honestly very impressive. She is able to hold neutrality for both partners in a couple, show them that they are seen and safe, and help them each clarify their desires.
-Katie Z
Attachment Lab’s Uptown office is nestled in the heart of Dallas and is a convenient commute from Oak Lawn, Lower Greenville, Design District, Knox/Henderson, Highland Park, and Preston Hollow.
Not in the Dallas area? We offer secure teletherapy throughout Texas with the same quality of in-person care but in the comfort of your own home!
Where Are You Located?
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Most therapy approaches focus on changing thoughts, modifying behaviors, or teaching coping skills, and those things are helpful when collaboratively tailored to the needs of the client. Attachment-based therapy in Dallas, however, goes a layer deeper, exploring the why behind the those thoughts and behaviors and tracing them back to the relational patterns you learned in childhood. Rather than just teaching you tools to manage a “symptom,” attachment therapy helps you understand the pain driving it and how it helped you survive. Integrated with approaches that honor your body’s wisdom and your nervous system’s cues, this work allows you to get to the root of the issue and experience healing at the core.
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It’s important that both you and I feel like it is a good fit when we schedule your intake session. 15 minute free consults really help this process and I am happy to offer them on the front end.
After almost a decade in the field, I have noticed that the clients who benefit from my specializations and approach the most are generally:
-Willing to pause during session to reflect and are open to feedback and exploring their issues from a different point of view
-Not expecting direct life advice or quick fixes. I tell clients that therapy is a rewarding slow burn of a process with definite “aha” moments of insight/transformation and concrete strategies as we take an active approach to your concerns, but overnight change is not possible or guaranteed
-Interested in taking charge of their own healing both in and outside of session by communicating needs and goals and committed to doing the work outside of session
-Not in an active mental health emergency or needing treatment for current suicidal intent or self-harming behaviors
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Length of Treatment: Considering that therapy is an investment on your part in so many ways, this question is so valid and one of the many reasons why free consults are helpful, because the answer is genuinely different for each person. Some clients come in with a specific event to process (a painful breakup) or a concrete goal (preparing for marriage or engagement), and are ready to “graduate” therapy after three to five months. Others with complex trauma or long-standing relationship cycles need deeper work and find that eight to twelve months gives them the space to really feel safe, open up, and process effectively. The majority of my clients notice tangible improvement within the fist eight weeks and sustained growth thereafter, but I check in regularly on your goals and ask for feedback so that you're never in therapy longer than is meaningful to you or rushed out before you're ready.
Frequency: I encourage clients to try and commit to weekly sessions for the first two months and reassess from there. Research shows that this level of consistency helps to establish a strong therapeutic relationship at the beginning so you feel safe to open up as well as accelerates your progress down the line because we are able to build sufficient traction on the front end. However, I am happy to work with your schedule! While I don’t accept new clients who want to meet less than twice a month, we can establish a rhythm that works for you.
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Your intake session is a chance to expound on what you shared in your consult call, clarify your goals for the process, and get a picture of what working together looks like. Because it’s our first time meeting, we won’t go too deep into things like trauma history or the origin of your presenting problem, but I will guide our conversation to get what I call a “flyover” view of why you’re here so we can set an agenda for next steps. I will ask a lot of assessment questions at the front end and will always check in to make sure we are moving at your pace. You are ultimately in control of how much you share and I trust you to tell me your story as you are ready.
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50 minute individual sessions are $160 and 55 minute couples sessions are $190.
Have you ever reached the end of a therapy session and felt like you were JUST getting to the good stuff? 80 minute sessions are available to address this concern and are priced at $220 for individuals and $275 for couples. Extended sessions are available in-person in Uptown Dallas or virtually across Texas.
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I am an out-of-network provider, so payment for sessions is direct and due at the time of service. This allows you more confidentiality, privacy, and freedom of choice in your treatment. Specifically, it avoids both a mental health diagnosis going on your permanent record AND insurance companies having access to your confidential records. It means that I work for you, not the insurance company, so we can customize treatment length and approaches to fit your goals.
However, this doesn’t mean that you can’t use your benefits. Some insurance plans reimburse out-of-network mental health appointment between 50% - 80% of the session cost (the rate of repayment is unique to your plan). I utilize a benefits calculator during our consult call to help you instantly determine your out-of-network coverage. If you have benefits, I will automatically provide you with a superbill which is essentially a detailed receipt for services that contains all the information your insurance needs to reimburse you for appointments.
Take the Next Step
Attachment Lab is in the business of making scheduling simple. Clicking the “book a consult” link below gives you instance access to our calendar where you can choose the slot that best fits your needs. Based in Uptown Dallas, we also offer virtual therapy for anyone in the state of Texas and hybrid appointments are available for those who want a mix of both.
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